Why Do I Have Fears That Don’t Make Sense?
- Lilly@bodymindcare
- Feb 25
- 4 min read
Some fears feel automatic, intense, and disconnected from conscious memory. In this article, I explore why fears that “don’t make sense” often live in the body rather than the mind, how they can form in this life or beyond, and why gentle approaches like the Simpson Protocol can help resolve fear without reliving trauma.
I’ve had many people come to see me for fears that, on the surface, don’t seem to make sense. Fear of heights is a common one.
Sometimes there is no obvious trauma in this lifetime. No memory of falling. No clear reason. And yet, the body reacts instantly, intensely, as if danger is imminent, even when the person knows logically that they are safe.
I remember working with people where, during regression, scenes emerged that explained this fear in a very symbolic and emotional way. One person experienced a life where they were climbing a mountain, lost their grip, and fell. Another revisited a life as a soldier or a fighter, pushed over a cliff during a conflict. In those moments, what mattered wasn’t the story itself, but the emotion held in the body, the shock, the loss of control, the suddenness of it all.
What’s interesting is that the fear carried into this life had no narrative attached to it. The body remembered the sensation, not the context.
At the same time, I’ve also seen fears that had absolutely nothing to do with past lives. I remember someone who developed a fear of heights after falling from a tree as a child and breaking a leg. The event itself might seem insignificant when told as a story, but for the body, it was enough. The nervous system learned something in that moment, and the fear stayed.
This is important to say clearly:
not every fear comes from a past life.
Fear can be rooted in this life, in something small or something major, in a moment where the body felt unsafe and didn’t fully process it. What matters is not where it comes from, but whether it has been resolved.
What I’ve observed again and again is that unexplained fears often sit below conscious memory. The body reacts before the mind has time to interpret. And when the fear feels deep, old, or disproportionate to the present situation, people naturally start wondering if it might come from somewhere beyond this lifetime.
That curiosity makes sense.
However, when it comes to fear, especially strong or traumatic fear, I’m often very mindful of the approach we use. Past life regression can be powerful, but it involves revisiting scenes in detail. For some people, reliving a fall, a death, or a violent situation can be emotionally intense.
This is why, in most cases of fear, I actually recommend working with the Simpson Protocol rather than traditional past life regression.
The body lets go when it finally feels safe enough to do so.
With the Simpson Protocol, we can access the root cause of the fear, whether it comes from this life or another, without the person having to relive the traumatic event consciously. The work happens at a deeper level, guided by the subconscious or superconscious, in a way that feels safer and more contained for the nervous system.
And the result can be the same, if not more effective:
the fear releases, not because it was analysed or re-experienced, but because the body no longer needs to hold it.
Fear is not the enemy. It’s information. It’s the body saying, “There is something unresolved here.” When that something is acknowledged and integrated, the fear often no longer needs to be present. The body can finally relax, knowing it has been heard.
If you experience fears that don’t make sense, fears that feel automatic or out of proportion, there is nothing wrong with you. And you don’t need to force yourself to relive painful memories to heal them.
There are gentle, respectful ways to work with fear, whether its roots are in this life or beyond. And sometimes, the most powerful shift happens when we stop trying to control fear and start listening to what it’s trying to resolve.
When fear feels automatic, there is often something deeper asking to be resolved
If you experience fears that feel out of proportion, illogical, or disconnected from conscious memory, it doesn’t mean something is wrong with you. It often means your body learned something at a time when it didn’t yet feel safe enough to release it.
I offer holistic hypnotherapy sessions, including Simpson Protocol hypno-coaching, for people who want to work with fear in a gentle, respectful, and nervous-system-safe way. This approach allows us to access the root of a fear — whether it comes from this life or another — without having to relive traumatic events consciously.
The work happens at a deeper level, guided by your subconscious or superconscious, allowing the body to let go once it no longer needs to stay on alert.
Sessions are available online or in person, with online sessions being the most accessible option for many people.
If you’re unsure whether this type of work is right for you, you’re welcome to get in touch and ask questions before booking.
Sometimes, fear doesn’t need to be fought or analysed — it simply needs to be understood.
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